Clitoral or vaginal orgasm? Quite an existential question...

From my naive days, I'll always remember the first time an Adonis asked me the ultimate question from the compilation of hot and twisted questions: "Are you clitoral or vaginal?"

My brain paused to think, and I stupidly replied that I was vaginal. To be honest, I had no idea, and differentiating between the two was a real struggle. I'm a little relieved because many of my friends from my generation were just as ignorant. Firstly, I didn't even know it was possible to have an orgasm with my clitoris, let alone that there was a G-spot on the anterior wall of my vagina. Secondly, this G-spot had the power to trigger little sparks throughout my body. I must modestly admit that these little sparks were super rare in my life before.

Always maintain self-confidence

What a journey it's been these past few years to learn to know my body in its every intimacy and gain self-confidence. It's true that when I resumed my sexual life, I could have a vaginal orgasm (even several if my partner was a sex god). I was even embarrassed once when an Adonis pointed out that I'd had three orgasms. Maybe he was as embarrassed as I was? Mystery…..

Over time, I became clitoral because I dared to simply say what I liked with confidence. Anyway, respectful men like women to say what they want in bed or elsewhere for the adventurous.

For a vaginal orgasm, nothing beats a good doggy style, which should be done gently. It allows contact with the G-spot and also provides access to the clitoris. Also, keep a close eye on the Amazon position, which is also excellent for stimulating the vagina, and your partner can once again have fun with your breasts and clitoris.

The importance of foreplay remains and will remain crucial for achieving clitoral, vaginal, or even anal orgasm.